For example when you’re sad, angry, do you cry if you feel like crying? Because lately I got overwhelmed with some emotions and got confused what should i do about it, how to deal in the best way possible to minimize the resistance…cause i don’t wanna ruin my manifestations with low vibrations but I don’t know how to process it all, so how do you mange them?
For several weeks now, I was working on the manifestation of getting my ex back. (She broke up with me, typical story of our negativity rubbing off on each other solely due to focusing on the negative over the positive. Plus, her parents wouldn’t let her talk to me for those reasons.)
I tried subliminal messages, meditations, affirmations, all sorts of things for a few weeks. Soon though, I started getting new relationships in my life. I became close friends with a girl who I felt a strong emotional connection with, and we talked about feelings a lot. (when I realized that a large thing that created tension in my relationship was the fact that my partner felt emotionally distant.)
So that, combined with a newfound confidence that I could easily get a sexual relationship if I wanted, I realized that I was perfectly capable of having everything my partner ‘gave’ me, even if it wasn’t in the package of a single person, or one particular person. I already ‘had’ everything I ‘wanted’, so naturally I didn’t have any resistance towards the idea of manifesting her. Lo and behold, just a few days after that (Or, a better way to look at it, when those thoughts and feelings of already having everything I want and not needing anything that only one particular person can offer me were at their peak after developing for a few days):
She then came back into my life, and things have been great in our relationship ever since. Now, I could end this here and have this be an inspiring success story for anyone with similar intentions. I wanted to do that a few weeks ago. But that seemed premature. (And maybe my subtle belief that “this is too good to be true!” was the first part of my downfall.)
I still think it’s a valuable lesson. The only reason you desire the things you desire most is probably because they meet multiple needs, if you think about it. A desired relationship is friendship, emotional support, romance, commitment, sex. A desired job too, I think is a combination of having economic freedom, meaning to get you out of bed in the morning, the ability to enter a flow state, and also having enough free time. I believe that if you can get just a little bit of every aspect of what you want to manifest, it’s as if you’re showing the universe what you want in your life, and then it gives you more of it in the most efficient and graceful way.
But putting that lesson aside just for a moment, knowing of course that it will be an important part of what comes next.
Sadly though, the story doesn’t end there. Last night was the first time I really slipped up. I wallowed in negativity for just a bit when I was talking to her. I was feeling a bit uncomfortable with sexual things and rather desperately asked for reassurance that she would still love me and want to be together with me if we couldn’t have a sexual relationship. It wasn’t something I was certain I wanted, but regardless. I was pretty fearful, unsure, and weak.
I said something along the lines of “Sometimes I wonder if you might be happier without me. You wouldn’t have to worry about hiding our relationship from your parents and only being able to talk a little bit. Plus you wouldn’t have to deal with me getting all depressed after I orgasm.”
Of course, she reassured me. It’d be pretty ridiculous if this upset her and she broke up with me again, one little slip up in a few weeks of being incredibly positive and confident. Still, I knew what I was doing was wrong. It didn’t feel right, like my vibes were back in the same place that caused our relationship to end previously. She affirmed me and was very sweet and kind, but she was getting sleepy. So, we hung up the call and I got up to do some things before I went to bed myself.
A few minutes later, I received a call from her again (on facebook messenger) and picked it up to hear her parents yelling about me. This whole time we had been keeping our relationship a secret from them, as they didn’t approve of us talking. Apparently they must’ve taken her phone and read the things we were texting about earlier (sexual things, of the sort that made me feel uncomfortable afterwards, so yeah, not exactly the type of thing you want your girlfriend’s parents reading.) And threatened to show my father them if I ever talked to her again. I heard her crying in the background and just didn’t know what to do. The whole call lasted 30 seconds, mostly of these two abusive parents barking at me before hanging up. And of course, I haven’t heard anything from my girlfriend since.
Now, I just don’t know what to do. The only thing keeping me sane is my belief in the law of attraction. Obviously though, after something so bad happened, my negative, cynical mind is just treating that like denial. This whole thing has been awful, and undoubtedly traumatic for her. I feel like I caused this and I’m worried that it’s irreparable.
Of course, that seems unlikely. Something that gave me faith in the law of attraction originally was recognizing that I had attracted the breakup, and by the same logic I should be able to attract her back as well.
I’m just really confused what to make of this. Is it meant to show me that I shouldn’t be in a relationship with her if I want a relationship with no/little sex, because she has more of a need for that sort of thing?
Is it because just for those few moments, I wanted to not be in a relationship with her because I wasn’t sure how to navigate the complexity of our partnership? I noticed that I felt that way. I was afraid that we were doing more harm than good to each other. And is this a realization of it being true, or is it just because I was aligned with that so I got what I asked for?
Either way, it seems apparent that this wasn’t a coincidence. I attracted this, but I guess I just don’t know what it means or what to do.
And more importantly, could this be the moment where things are ‘darkest before the dawn’, so to speak? From this position where things are the worst they’ve been yet, could it go from here to being better than ever before? Even though our relationship was pretty good, it’d be a lot better if I could actually talk to her freely and visit her IRL. Her parents are the one thing that have yet to budge at all during my intention of having a good relationship with her, even though I included them in some of my visualizations/affirmations, even though now I’m not sure if those were effective, so that would explain why not much has changed.
Is it right to be optimistic and get back in alignment with being in a perfect relationship with her? Or is that just a delusion born out of denial that things are over, and that things are either so bad or final that I can’t fix them?
Obviously I know that the latter probably isn’t the case, but still, some reassurance would be helpful! Also, any other stories or advice would be greatly appreciated!
TL;DR Can you use the law of attraction to truly accomplish anything, despite the odds? Can you sabotage yourself more easily than you can repair the damage you have done? Are some things just not meant to be? Can bad circumstances (abusive households, long distance, legal-but-socially-disapproved-of age gaps, and other life situations) be evidence that you’re not meant to be with someone, no matter how in love with each other you both are?
Most importantly: Does the universe make certain things difficult in order to show you an easier path that is ultimately better for you? Or, is the difficulty more of a test to see if you truly want what you ask for? And is that what’s best for you? Or perhaps whichever one you choose to believe is true?
Has anyone noticed that when they start manifesting good things with new people and relationships that other relationships start to go to shit?
Is it because I’m not focusing my energy in the right place anymore or is there something else going on? I recently met a really cool new friend who is basically my favorite new person, went on a date (it was only okay, but a date nonetheless), finally met a person I would call the “girl of my dreams” in real life and have been texting with her a lot and we’re planning a date, and all of these great things have been happening! And then I fucked up a TWO friendships really hard. Possibly a third. I’m working on fixing them and directing positive energy that way, but like, dang. I’m struggling to work with these good and bad vibes simultaneously. What am I doing wrong?
A puzzle-piece dropped today when I realized I really want to have fun manifesting my dream life. It got a bit too serious… now I get it. I want to have fun. I want to play around. I want to have a real good time doing this, living this magical life 🙂
Sharing as maybe someone else out there forgot that you can also have fun while doing this 🙂
A very powerful form of manifestation is done in a small and overlooked detail:
Me getting X
X getting me.
If you want to manifest a girl into your life, imagine not you getting her, but her getting you. Her revolving around your gravitational pull. You are the metaphorical center of the universe, and you will not come to the things that you desire. Imagine that you will not show up at her doorstep, but she will show up to yours.
You will not find the perfect job, the perfect job will find you.
You deserve to receive what you desire. And you will receive abundantly.
Take mental action. Our time is limited and precious.
Happy manifesting 🙂
So lately I have been doubtful in why i never find a pink feather, but then it hit me that a friend of mine has parrots and posts pics of them. So I wondered if maybe they have some pink feathers and that I already manifested this. But then I was like, don’t think they do.. maybe? Not less than 5 minutes later i walk into a store, this lady calls to her kids “A feather!” So I look down.. and there it is! A pink feather! Just a nice manifestation I wanted to share with you all. Also would like to take the time to thank everyone on here that are so helpful and willing to teach!
Have a wonderful saturday and happy manifesting!
Welcome to this week’s Manifestation thread. Feel free to share what you have manifested this week. No matter how small or big, good or bad, accidental or purposefully, we want to hear it. 🙂 Don’t forget to also share how you manifested what you did, so that others might try your approach.
How can I attract some new friends?
Hey good people! The daily gratitude journal is back!
For everyone who is new to this, here is how this works:
* **Type 1 thing that you are grateful for in the comments.** That’s all! 🙂
Please take some time out today and look for all the things you have in your life that you are grateful for.
Maybe it is your health. Maybe it is your family, a friend, your cat, or even that stranger you met on the subway.
Stay still, and in the privacy of your own mind practice being grateful for it all, and see your life change for the better.
Being grateful – for all the things that make our lives, here and now!
*Life is reason enough to take joy in it and celebrate.*
Firstly, thank you to the universe for this gift X
So long story short, I had a strong feeling I was paying too much tax at this temp job. Some of you may be aware of these spam e-mails that say you’ve got a tax credit coming and sign in blah blah. I receive them a lot and would always think how great it would be if they were real.
So in my reality as I said I had that strong feeling. So I looked it up and read that once you requested a tax rebate it would take 90 days. *Please don’t quote me, it could’ve said 5 weeks. They also check over payers between June and October and although I knew I was due something I needed it before August, even before mid July.
My temp job has come to an end and so I’m living off small savings. It’s my birthday this month and my mums big birthday. I’m taking her for a short break but I’m also going for a short break with a friend.
Thinking about my spending money was getting a bit stressful because the reality is that when I’m back from the second holiday I’ll have next to nothing. The hours at the temp job started to seriously decline but I also needed to make my mums birthday special. That’s the background story.
I came in last week and noticed a letter in the door. It was for me and it was a letter for my tax credit that is now coming in 5 days. I hadn’t called them or e-mailed. I simply thought about it and imagined those spam e-mails coming in as an authentic letter. I also thought about it coming before mid July and 2/3 days later there it was sitting in my letterbox. Just in time 🙂
Next Manifestation Coming Up: A New Permanent Job (the universe knows what I mean, we’ve BEEN in discussion 🙂
All the best to you all in your manifestations. If you have any recent money manifestations feel free to share 🙂